Should it stay or should it go?

Home OrganizationLuxury Organization
Written By Laura Davidson

Overcoming Decluttering Analysis Paralysis

Remember these lyrics? They apply to decluttering too…

Should it stay, or should it go now?
Should it stay, or should it go now?
If it goes, there will be trouble (sometimes)
And if it stays, it will be double (almost always!)

Decluttering your home can feel a bit like playing that song in your head.  But instead of driving around with friends singing at the top of your lungs, you're staring at a sweater from 2007, a chipped mug, and a drawer full of mystery cords.

If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I might need this someday…” or “But Aunt Jess gave this to me!” - you’re not alone. Let’s break down how to make decluttering easier (and faster!) so you can get back to doing the things you love.

Love It, Need It, Use It

Here’s the golden rule of decluttering: If you don’t love it, need it, or use it - it’s probably time to let it go.

Let’s break that down:

  • Love it – It makes you happy. You’d buy it again today.

  • Need it – You use it regularly and genuinely need it for day-to-day life.

  • Use it – You’ve used it in the past year, and it actually serves a purpose.

If it doesn’t check any of those boxes, it’s likely just taking up space - and draining your energy.

Why We Keep Things We Shouldn’t

Sometimes we hold onto clutter for reasons that don’t really make sense. Here are a few common ones:

  • Guilt: “My mom gave me that ugly vase. I can’t get rid of it.”

  • Money: “I spent good money on that, even if I never use it.”

  • Someday Syndrome: “I might need it one day… maybe…”

  • Memories: “This broken chair reminds me of Grandpa’s house.”

Here’s the truth: Your space should reflect who you are now - not your past, not your guilt, and not your ‘maybe one day’ plans.

How to Let Go Without Regret

Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting. Here are a few simple ways to declutter without the guilt trip:

  • Reframe it: Getting rid of something doesn’t erase the memory. Keep one small item, take a photo, or write down the story behind it.

  • Give it a better life: Donate gently used items so they can be useful and loved by someone else.

  • Set boundaries: Keep a small memory box. When it’s full, it’s time to reassess.

  • Phone a friend: Ask someone neutral (hi, that’s me!) to help you decide what truly belongs in your space.

Ready to Ditch the Guilt and Clear the Clutter?

Decluttering doesn’t have to be overwhelming. If you're ready for less mess and more peace of mind, I’m here to help! Learn more about process and rates or schedule a call - let’s get your shift together!

Laura Davidson
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